Flutie, Have you given any thought to what your end goal is?
Is it divorce, and you are biding your time until the time is right?
Is it reconciling with your H, and you are waiting until he grows up?
How will you know when the time is right in either of these two scenarios? Have you sorted thru your thoughts (I know it is excessively tough with little ones around!) to think "When XYZ happens, I will know it is time.."
I'm just curious to see where the next step of your journey will take you. I have found it helpful to envision several scenarios occurring so I will have an idea of how to proceed when it happens. Also, having a goal in mind (separation vs. reconciliation) is critical in determining how you will handle your affairs.
Perhaps you have already decided on divorce and I missed that post--if so, I apologize and sorry for this convoluted post.
