Hang in there. My ex-H always enjoyed being the "identified patient" - he was always "ill" whether it was something physical or mental. In the final analysis he feels that I dumped him during a "crisis" and am therefore a witch. The crisis was merely a culmination of YEARS of the other stuff. The funny part is that now he has undertaken a whole bunch of therapy and determined that is was "all his parents fault" and has pretty much absolved me of guilt for my participation in the whole sorry thing. Anyway, I well understand how agressive depression and moping can be. Do something nice for yourself.