I really believe things are coming to a head in your household. What a tough situation you are in, and how heartbreaking now that the kids are actually coming to you about Daddy.
I'm so glad you found someone to speak with who can give you some real face-to-face feedback...who is from the country. I feel that's very important to have someone to speak with who has insight to the culture.
You are facing a tough battle...but remember, this too shall pass. You're going to come out of this a stronger/wiser woman.
Hang in there! GEL
PS - We're supposed to get snow tomorrow...I can't wait for my son to see snow for the first time
