Whoa folks,

I'm gaining information right now, not steamrolling full blast ahead towards D. Liese, he didn't order me to go to a lawyer, I mentioned that I had made an apt. I just want some information as to what my rights are here, in case I need to make some desicions. Finnish divorce law is pretty cut and dry, except in very extenuating circumstances, or an agreement, property is divided in half. No questions. Same for custody.

I really am not, right now, in a dangerous situation. I realize at this point, that might change, even quickly, but I'm not speeding it ahead, at least not before Christmas.

I feel a little like I'm being overloaded with information, and need some time to digest. Yes - I do realize I might not have that time right now - but I honestly at this point don't think it's that critical.

H is more like a lost puppy right now, and as long as I HOM, which I have gotten pretty good at of doing (believe it or not ), I don't think there will be big problems.

I can't keep it up long, 'cause it does mean at times stuffing stuff in, but for now, unless there's a big 'incident' or I can figure out how to make my next move.

Corri, I've already taken you up on your offer. Thanks.