Thanks for the replies HD, FF & 2ndChances5. I posted because my mental picture of ME/OG Lou, HD, & FF popped into my mind. I know different people can read the same book and come to a different conclusion. I do not want to sound preachy, that this is the solution to anyones problems. I see myself in a situation I read about and realise others must be there too.

My general opinion of some books are, they should be converted into Reader's Digest format. IE the author write 200 pages to say 25 pages of worthwile theory or application. Sometimes the real meat is in the details, but in this case "Boundaries in Marriage", had to many weak back-up refernces.

I got my book on eBay with a workbook. If I bought it again my $ limit would be arounf $9 with the workbook, including shipping.

OG Lou, Just thought I would try to help you guys. Many of you have helped me.