What a lovely surprise date you had for H! I'm sorry that it started out a bit...rough. It seems as if he was making ASSumptions about how things would be....we know what happens when we do that.
Quote: It was a good test of my "non-personalization" and it was also a good reminder to me that there have been times when I reacted negatively to something that h had planned.
Not that it makes it easier...but...both positives when you look at it in this light. I know that there were numerous ocassions when I acted just as your H did last night...not fun to feel it ourselves but perhaps helpful nontheless.
I'm glad that the evening turned around for both of you and that you enjoyed it. Another success for Sage!
