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Did you ever have to reming your H over and over again about something?





You mean about things that he said he would do? sure. Sometimes 2nd or 3rd reminders are necessary. "over and over again" sounds like nagging, though!

Have you read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"? There's a great section in there about asking for what you need/want.

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I fear my H will avoid conversation with me as much as possible. Partly because if it something that could be emotional he doesn't want to deal with me crying...did you ever have to deal with that?




Yes...crying has a big impact on my h. Sounds like you know a factor that's keeping your h from wanting to converse with you...so, what are you doing to work on it?

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.