All I can say is Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! I am new to DBing and luckily stumbled upon your threads. Your insight and honesty has been a tremendous help to me as I struggle to get through each day. I read and re-read your insights and success. I only hope I can follow in your footsteps.
Quick view of my sitch: Married 8 years ...together 10+ M - 32 H - 33 S - 2.5
Husband began going into his cave in August...unhappy but could not articulate why. fast forward to now...he began affair with co-worker in Novemeber and moved out on Jan 9th. We see each other daily due to S. I am struggling with staying on track and desperatley want our M to work. I am getting lots of mixed messages from him and don't know if I am coming or going from day to day.
Thank you for reminding me to stay the course...It is my desire to come out of it with the strength and relationship you have!
