Quote: So, when reconciliation takes place, even when we hear the reassurances, is there not still a slight doubt that 'it doesn't mean or guarantee a thing'? How does one get over that one?
gosh, that is a tough one.
sage, i am sorry that it's a hard time for you right now, but well you know how much of these feelings are things we bring about ourselves.
how many times we have to remember that so much of this is "choice" plain and simple. we have a choice to feel negative, suspicious, uncomfortable or whatever. we have to also remember how much of those negative feelings are based on pased happenings, that is the only thing we can compare it to
your negativity, no matter what brought it up will only snowball into more negativity. so put up that stop sign and focus on the positives.
IF anything is amiss, it will come out, and you are not a fool to have believed - the other party is the fool to have trampled on your faith - remember that faith is the assured expectation of realities not seen - have faith that your hubby is on the up and up - protrude that faith in all you do, and your hubby will rise to meet those expectations
just like we all do
did that even make sense? well, it made sense to me in my feeble ole brain
