Hey Sage! Glad you got to meet H2H - more fabulous DBers, eh?
Quote: One thing I've noticed is that I really have a hard time if I'm not sure "what" to do if h is distracted, super busy, whatever.
I hear you on this one. My H has gotten himself into a "work hole" again (taking on too many projects, then being overwhelmed) and I find it SO difficult not to react. His anxiety makes me anxious, his distance makes me paranoid about the state of his depression, and if I'm not really careful, HIS moodiness causes MY normally very-even-keeled mood to sink.
Of course I know this is all wrong, and what I really need to do is let MY good mood pull HIS mood up. So I pull out playful and flirty and humorous me, and he usually will respond (even if it takes a couple of days). I just wish I didn't have to worry about his moods!!!! Ellie
