Looking backward...but only to move forward TWO

[sage]

A busy couple of days at work so not much time to post!

Things are going well..h handed in his big paper on Tuesday so that was a big relief to him. School is definitely in major "ramp up mode" for him, though...he's got a ton of homework. He also has a couple of interviews this week for summer positions. The first one (this AM) went well apparently and he's got a big one tomorrow.

School starts for me again next week -- OTOH, BLECH, OTOH, hey, it's my last semester! THAT can only be a good thing! I've really enjoyed my break.

I'm feeling more relaxed at home in the last few days...pleased about that. One thing I've noticed is that I really have a hard time if I'm not sure "what" to do if h is distracted, super busy, whatever. to the point, it really helps if he's clear about what he needs...a few days ago he really had to stay at school late to work on the paper instead of meeting up with me...it was SO easy to just say "yes, sure, absolutely no problem" because he was so clear about what he needed.

It's a good lesson for me, actually, because often I am SO NOT CLEAR about what I need...I wonder if that's as confusing/distressing as it is for me. I'll be it is.

Gotta run -- meeting!

Sage