Maya -- Thanks for the visit! It was great meeting H2H! Not sure I doled out anything too sage but I loved getting H2H's advice and feedback! Thanks for saying my thread gives hope -- looks like things are moving forward in your sitch, huh?

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Hooray for the Patriots! h came home after visiting with his friend and we watched a bit of TV, hung around some and then went to bed. It was nice to hang out -- he said that he felt like we hadn't really spent much time together over the weekend (and said he was sorry about that). I have to admit that I feel enormously clingy right now -- would like to wrap him in my arms and just hang out together ...well, with him whispering reassurances in my ear... NOT the greatest timing for my "bottomless pit" meltdown because he is super busy at school -- despite my feelings, I haven't acted on them or, I hope, communicated them to h...I just FEEL clingy, I don't think I've BEEN clingy.

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.