I'm fairly sure that she has seen at least some of the posts, because she made some comments about my posting on here, and some other behavior (see response to Chrissy). Right now, I would hesitate to describe the results as positive. I've been delaying discussing it with her because it seems obvious to me that she disapproves of it - I'm hoping a couple of days to mull it over will help her recognize that I'm looking for answers to our problems, not "tattling" or something.