I hope it (asking her to visit the SSM board) will be a positive thing, but last night, something happened that makes me question whether it was a good idea.
Around 11:00, I was in my office just finishing up messing around on the computer, and I checked the SSM board before heading off to bed. When I left my office, I saw my W standing outside the door with a strange look on her face. I asked her what was up, but she didn't say anything. Doing the mental math, I figured that she had seen me on the board, and (after having visited sometime earlier yesterday) she didn't like the idea. So I asked her if she had any thing she wanted to say. She didn't - but while she was turning out the lights in the kitchen (where we were having the one-sided conversation), I jokingly pointed out that she might break the paper towel holder she was using to operate the light switch (I had just broken our previous paper towel holder a couple of days before by dropping it). She said "I'm not a moron," and left the room. I asked "moron?" and she said "m..o..r..o..n" while leaving the room. I commented that I knew how it was spelled, and followed a bit behind her. She went into our bedroom and locked the door behind her, locking me out. My attempts to get her to talk or open the door didn't work, so I slept on the couch. We had some arguments earlier in the day, so maybe that was what was on her mind - but the timing makes me think she visited the board, and didn't care for what she saw.
I've tried to be as honest as possible about our sitch, as well as my thoughts & feelings, so I hope she's not looking at it as my using this as an anonymous way to complain about her without her being able to counter anything I've said. I'll try to find out tonight what is driving this behavior.
