Very good. My H unfortunalty did think we were fixed when I started being more active sexually. Talk about a slap in the face. But not all people are that shallow. My H would have never came here or looked for any others insight or advice without feeling he was forced to. I think it is awesome that you encouraged her to come here and see your personal thoughts. To share with her the issues you see as important and to let her see that you are also addressing more then just one issue. Hope all goes well and she sees that you are putting a great effort into trying to work through and understand the dynamics with in your relationship