HP, you got me laughing there. That sounds like one of my typical over the top moves that your H did there. I recall one time a good friend and I decided we were going to cook for our wives (this was a long time ago) Suffice it to say, hamburgers should not take 6 hours to prepare, no matter how "gourmet" they might be
You got yourself a good H there, girl. He means well, and yeah, he doesn't "get" you all the time, but dang it, you got a good H there. Heck, you might find yourself in the position of having to 'just do it'. Being the HD in the relationship, that feels really really weird (MrsG was all frisky last night and I couldn't have given a rat's behind, but I went along and wound up having a good time). Who'da thunk an HD would be arousal before desire?????