You can't "M'am, yes M'am" your way thru a marriage. In Civi world you have to talk about things.
Neither is the commanding officer. Neither is the "grunt".
I agree with the others, since you did the prostitutes there has been enough time for some unfortunate thing to show and I'm sure you would have taken care of "something".
I am a bit confused. Why didn't the marriage license blood work allert you to her herpies? Isn't that tested for?
You have a very active desire level. PE can be treated and MOST of it is coaching to control. Have you seen a specialist?
I havent read the entire thread but in your opinion, why does she see you as a threat? Sis so protectorate, (hey the concern is great just why does she expect the worst?)
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay