LOL, I tend to agree with you. Our dogs are spoiled rotten, mostly by my H. I show 2 of them, the other 1 is an obedience dog. I just haven't gotten around to doing the other 2 in obedience yet. Probably never will. When I go away to shows for weekends then the dog gets special treatment and can sleep on the bed with me, and I can see sometimes letting them sleep on the bed for special times, but not every single night. I even suggested letting them sleep in H bed and he sleep with me and put a gate up at the door, he won't do it. They would probably stand at the gate and whine anyway