I think it was pretty much pure laziness lol Like putting clothes in the closet or dresser just to get them out again was too much trouble. But yet, he used to be such a total perfectionest before like he couldn't sleep if even a fork or something was in the sink when he went to bed.
We have no children at home, so its just he and I, no threat of anyone else seeing him naked. He can be "odd" at times, guess that was one of the times. anyway, I got him to put most of his stuff back in the bedroom, except his flannel sleep pants which he changes into when he is settled in for the night. Those he still leaves in the dining room, but now on the seat of a chair. What I cannot figure out is years ago he moved out of the bedroom and into the spare room. Fixed it up the way he wanted and he still sleeps in there (once in a while on a weekend he will sleep in my room) but his clothes are still in my room. Go figure that one. Maybe its his way of still laying claim to me. Keeping his clothes in my room makes him feel like everything is still ok?
I have tried to talk to him about sleeping with me, and sometimes on the weekend he does, but the dogs all pile in the bed too, and just last weekend one of them all but pushed me out of the bed and I ended up getting up and sleeping in the other bed. I cannot get him to put them up at night. That, to him, is non negociable.
