I'm so sorry about the pain that you are experiencing in your relationship. There are some very wise people on this site. They can help you even if the R continues to be difficult. Your W sounds like someone who has significant personal issues. They aren't because you told her about visiting prositutes in your past and they aren't because you view porn now. I support those who suggested getting rid of the current DVD mainly because I support closing our Exits with each other. However, that being said, she is being pretty tough on you. Don't worry about long posts. I like them.
