Thanks Hairdog. FYI, I did get rid of the DVD. I wasn't ashamed of it, but given the history with my father, I agreed with her that it was the right thing to do. I havent heard the end of it, however. Already this morning she must have made five comments about how the company chat session I was participating in was probably porn, and that once I engage in that behavior, how could she not be suspicious of everything that I do? The topper was when I asked if I needed to pick up a toy for a christmas party we're attending tonight. She told me not to, because I would probably go buy a dildo or some other sex-related item.
You know, I could be out having an affair, abusing her or the kids, drinking, doing drugs, or a million other destructive things to cope with our problems. I realize that what I'm doing isn't the ideal solution, but it sure doesn't seem to be the terrible thing she's making it out to be.
