Need some help. I am pretty sure my wife has gotten a present from OM. She has a full bottle of perfume with body wash hidden in our closet. She is not the type to run out and buy this herself. The brand is the same as the perfume that she has in our bathroom. I did not buy her that bottle and always suspected that it might be a gift from OM. This has me pretty agitated. We have been getting along pretty good lately. Infact the other night we had some R talk and it was not bad. She seemed to understand my situation more so than the past. Many things were said but one question that I did ask was if she wanted me to leave. She said no convincingly. She also said the R with the OM is over. Now I see this and I am troubled. If I bring it up she will know that I went through a box on her side of the closet. On the other hand, I can't stand the thought that she accepted the gift. I don't want to push her away but I need honesty if I am going to heal. HELP!