Thanks for the advice and support. I am going through DR for the second time and taking good notes to refer back to.
Yes, I can forgive her. I do have my doubts at times. It isn't easy when you are betrayed. You certainly don't feel like trying to win someone back when they did this to you but I also realize the pain that divorce would bring. Especially in our situation with the kids and how are friends and family are so intertwined.
My counselor did recommend Chapmans 5 Love Langauges. I will be picking it up at the library in the next day or so. It does seem she is warming up some so I do have encouragement. Unfortunately it doesn't go at the pace that you would like.
Can you recommend a specific thread from former was?
