I decided to start with not an overwhelming number of goals and see how I fare.

Later I will add steps under them to make them more like baby steps for me!

2005 Goals:

To not NEED another person to fill a void, to fill that void with my life and happiness so that if there ever is another person they don't become the center of my life. I think this is the big over all goal and the goals below are the steps to work towards accomplishing this state of mind and enjoyment of my life.

Continue to work on the black/white thinking and emotional reacting. Focus on Thinking first, then Act if necessary.

Continure monitoring the self talk and re-directing it when necessary

Spend more time with my friends

Become more organized

Work with Shara on herding

Check on working Tara in agility

Work Frostbyte in obedience

Take Shimmer out more

Keep my house cleaner, Flylady here I come.

Keep the shelties groomed better.



Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"