Sorry it seems the whole thinking process is getting posted today but if I can lick this one I think it is a biggie for me!
I realized I was feeling stuck and in a rut and I said, No, I'm no longer stuck or in a rut. My life is my own to chose what I want to do or not do, what I enjoy or don't. It is mine to make of what I will and I need to set some goals to aim for this upcoming year!
That was something I never understood when married to D. He never, that I was aware of, sat any goals or made any plans. It is like his life was only day to day existence. But I need something out there to aim for and look forward too!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"