I can so identify with you, both of us having Hs off with OW who were our friends, who live in the same circles. They are 'shamelessly' out there for all the world to see, we are the ones who have to avoid bumping into our former spouses with our former 'friend's. We will get there, but it is a long process.
We will get there by detaching and building our own lives, I hope. If H and OW 1 stay together for much longer, I will begin to feel pity for them, I already do. I know those two well. They are NOT long term together material. But it makes me sad to think that he should waste his time on that path, when he could be repairing our family and our daughter's life. If he is not up to it, them I really am much better off without him. If he is such a wimp, then I don't need him!
Pam let me ask you, in the dog world, what are your relative positions? Would you enter a competitive class together?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
