It is when I read the newsletter from the club and read about them, when I have to see or deal with him, seeing her at our house. And eventually seeing them at dog shows. My C says we are going to get me to the point where that doesn't bother me. She didn't say HOW we are going to do that.
My guess is to just keep building my own life up till that pain isn't the central focus anymore, even when I see them!
Ah, see? YOU know the road there
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.