Pam --
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I am barely functional. If the shelties didn't get me up I'm not sure I would get up.




well...this is mighty concerning! can you chat with your neighbor? get some more support around you? and you ARE going out to dinner tonight, right?

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It was really not optional. I suppose this has been slowly building but I am just really aware of it so strong this week.




well...I'm going to point this out but hope it doesn't scream invalidation. Seems to me that there have been times in the past when you have needed to reach out and you didn't ... and you would post again and again reasons why you COULDN'T or didn't NEED to, etc.

The simple fact that YOU saw it as a necessity and did something about it is a great, great thing, Pam. Being in the sitch and NOT doing something about it is much worse, imho.

Sage



Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.