Glad to here you and B are doing well. How is his shoulder? Still giving him problems? I hope not.
As a Mom you are going to be amazed at how a little girl can brighten your days. Are you going to stay at home or do the day care thing?
A big change is coming into your lives. Start to develop those scenarios in your head about how to handle those days when life / husband / child / life issues have you worn to the bone. Sit down with B and work out a generic plan. I gaurantee it will change, but at least start communicating about it. Children demand a lot of time. Time that will have to come from something you are both doing now. You will simply have to change priorities for about 18 yrs.