Thanks, you are an inspiration. When you were apart did you contact him at all? I just left H and trying to get through the non-contact phase is hard. I am trying to move on, well I have to move on and take myself away from his actions. I am trying to set a certain bar of what I expect. But there has been no communication before I left and to date. Just hope he will make it back to the other side. He was a good man, just has been abducted by aliens (I hear that a lot on this website). If you can give me any tips as to what you did while you were apart or if you had any contact...please visit my thread. I was planning on using the last resort technique. No contact. I am trying to remember the positive. There was so much about 6-9 months ago. I could not have felt more love for my H at that point in time. How things can go downhill Anyway, your words are encouraging. Thanks I think my thread is: should I give him some real space
