Thanks Steve, No problems I read the board everyday and post as often as I have time too. Especially to those who need the most encouragement. Beside I am not going any where. B and I still have a looong road a head off us. We are going to start "piecing". Up until today, we should have been in a forum called "H wants W back after H screwed up and W does not know what she wants or what to do" or how about one called " W making H jump threw hoops to get her back, while she just sits they and does NOTHING" . No fear my friends I not going anywhere unless you guys would rather I did not post anymore. Today is the beginning of a freah start. I am going to recommit to my marriage and start treating my H like my H instead of my RM. Dont worry Ellie I still plan to keep the bar very very very VERY high. I will not put up with questionable behavoir. But I have learned to listen better, and B has learned that it is ok to ask for help.
or how about one called " W making H jump threw hoops to get her back, while she just sits they and does NOTHING" 
. No fear my friends I not going anywhere unless you guys would rather I did not post anymore. 
Today is the beginning of a freah start. I am going to recommit to my marriage and start treating my H like my H instead of my RM. Dont worry Ellie I still plan to keep the bar very very very VERY high. I will not put up with questionable behavoir. But I have learned to listen better, and B has learned that it is ok to ask for help. 
