Quote: He is still atending C and NA ( altough last night he told me he does not think he needs to go anymore, Which maybe he is right)
No, no no!!!! It is WAY to early for him to stop going to NA!
And frankly - I still haven't heard that he has ANY real insight into WHY he did all this. He has to figure that out, M3M, or he will repeat it someday. Don't make the mistake I made of letting him off the hook without him REALLY figuring out why he went this direction, and what his issues are.