My opinion would be that you do what makes you feel right. If giving H a card is something you enjoy or get satisfaction from then do so...not because you are trying to make him "notice" or expect a gesture or utterance of "thank you"...but because it makes YOU feel good about yourself I don't know if you are like me or not but I am a "giver"...I get satisfaction just from that in itself...any expression of gratituded is just icing on the cake. When I can't "give" I get very frustrated and often angry...I am in essence not being able to express ME.
So, give the card if you want...keep it lighthearted so you don't gie the wrong idea...and fix something up fro your D to give him. Just because he wants to act like a butt doesn't mean you need to do the same (unless you WANT to of course )
Regards, Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
I don't know if you are like me or not but I am a "giver"...I get satisfaction just from that in itself...any expression of gratituded is just icing on the cake. When I can't "give" I get very frustrated and often angry...I am in essence not being able to express ME.
