Maybe I shouldn't look at what happened these past few birthdays, unless it is to maybe learn something from them, instead I need to look forward.

H has never been one to really observe birthdays and other celebrations very much. I remember the first Chrsitmas we had after we married, he was overwhelmed at getting presents, he said that no one had given him presents at Christmas for years. It is notable that both the last two Christmases he was without an OW, he spent the first alone and the second he was at our place.

So I guess filling his tank over his birthday might be a very good idea.

But how to do this without pursuing or setting myself up for a fall? That is the question!

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates