Where's my sick bag? Ride getting bumpy!

[Zoo]

Hey LNL...it looks like you have a good plan going there and had a pretty good day to boot

I had a question about the luncheon goal too. I have noticed in a few of your posts that you have said H will ask you to lunch and then it just ends up him inviting himself to your place so you can fix somthing for him...Did I read that right? You might want to amend your goal to "accepting H's invitations to lunch OUT". If he says "why don't we just go back to the house and have a sandwich" or whatever, then politely decline and say you haven't been to the market or something. This way the luncheon is something he is actually taking you too and it keeps ya'all in neatral territory. I get the impression that his spending time actually in the house and "talking" tends to stress you out quite a bit.

If he asks why you don't have any food in, tell him you had a "dear friend' over for lunch or dinner the previous day. You might even want to make SURE there is nothing in the house on those days so d can back you up if he asks her at a later date

I know...it's kinda sneaky but it lends itself to that "mystery" you are trying to get going

Hugz,
Zoo