Quote: I trust D knows very well how much I love her and will not take things the wrong way. Or maybe I need to tell her in so many words? I thought my H knew that I loved him too...
Thinking about that one, I decided to tell D quite frankly about my POV. I drew her aside, and said, I want you to know that I never 'don't want you in this house', but when I make an arrangement with your father I want him to stick to it, so that I can plan my life. I might have errands to do, visits planned etc, so it is nothing to do with wanting or not wanting you around.
And D replied, I know that!!!
Phew!
I guess I need to get into the habit of making my POV/feelings clearer to those around me, instead of letting them assume it is obvious. And where lack of clarity could lead to misunderstanding.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
