Dear Dear LNL!
I sit here thinking of the tune....."What a difference a day makes..."
But in your case what a difference a weeekend makes!

You sound sooooooo much more self directed!

Isn't it funny how we let our spouses affect us?
We begin to believe it must be all "Us"...it isn't him....it's me.......

How silly that all seems now with some time and perspective.
You really do seem to have turned a corner. That circular, although meant to exonerate H from responsibility, managed to turn on the light for more people than H ever thought it would.

I sit here laughing at his silly, sorry, self!

I hope you are feeling absolutely GREAT!!!!! right about now.......
You are an amazing person....even if H is too foolish to see it.
Big Hug! and keep going with those new changes!!
Trish