Quote: I am not perfect, but it REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY isn't about me!
Yes, it's really important to get that. Not that it lets the LBS off the hook for working on their own issues, and the things we can do better - indeed, that's really all we truly have control over, and working on ourselves does bring results - but 90% + of this is not about the LBS, but all about the WASs problems. Your H is really confused.
Hmmm..... maybe next time he asks to stay at your house while you are gone, you can tell him your boyfriend wouldn't like it
Use this time to reclaim yourself, LNL. Make and keep those New year's resolutions. Keep GAL. Either he'll run to catch up or he won't - drop the illusion that you have any control over that. Your future is bright either way - with all you've learned and grown, how could it be anything less than fabulous?
