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Do NOT get drawn into ANY conversations with H on this email now - do not reply, do not talk to any OW, nothing, nada.






Exactly, I didn't even need coaching on that this time!!

In fact, H just rang a short while ago. Before answering I knew it would be H, so I put on my brightest and breeziest voice to say "Hello?" I just thought I would pretend I hadn't received the note yet, if he brought it up, but in any case, I wouldn't sound anything less than fine.

And this time, I had NOOOOO difficulty doing that, so I must be getting it!!!!!

H told me about when D would be picked up tomorrow, and I said fine! And fine! to everything else he told me to send up with her. Then I handed the phone over to D. I feel absolutely OK.

I am not perfect, but it REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY isn't about me!

Livnlearn


"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates