Earlier today I received an open 'circular' type letter (email) from H, sent to all three of us - myself, OW 1 and OW 2, which purports to be H's New Year's Resolution.
He starts out to say that he is sending it to all three of us, he "cannot be fairer than that"!!!!!
Livnlearn - you are my D's mother, oldest friend and wife of ten years.
OW 1 - you're like a sister, we've shared good and bad times and will continue to do so.
OW 2 - I have never known such sexual attraction or intellectual attraction as to you. Still feel that. You have been very generous to me in a difficult time.
But, I must tell you I am not coming back to any of you, because I'm tired of "expectations" and "pressure". Can only offer friendship, if you want it.
Of course, I read this just before a lesson, but I almost burst out laughing. This business of three women wanting him has really gone to his head!
Now, back at bomb time, I said the very same thing, he travelled around the world and his ego got big, and he found there were women 'interested' in him, so he thought he would drop his responsibilities like a hot potato and play the field.
Luckily, with my lessons I couldn't reply. In fact, there is no reply to such a missive. Will grandly ignore it and just enjoy myself over New Year's. He is tooooooooooo far gone right at this moment to lose sleep over, except that I worry that something might push him over the edge.
Anyway, when I got back to my computer after the lessons, I found a reply to him from OW 1 (remember, my ex-friend) which is also circulated to all three of us!!
She thought she swould take a leaf out of H's book (bunching us all together) and reply to all in likewsie manner. She has never met OW 2, but Livnlearn has been hurt enough ( gosh, she has noticed???) and she doesn't mean to hurt us further....
But says, H is behaving like a strutting cock, who after years of wallowing in gloom, probably brought on by himself, he has now got his little harem and has decided to shoo us off like flies who are anoying him. By writing like that to all of us he has humiliated the three of us. (Livnearn note: *I* don't feel humiliated, rather, I feel sorry for H ... )
Says, many have commented on H's pompousness but OW 1 has always defended him, now she sees they are right and she was wrong.
So, not to count on any friendship or sisterhood with her.
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