I've never posted to you before, but have been reading your thread for some time.
I don't really have much in the way of advice, but wanted to let you know that I think you are doing an outstanding job of dealing with your H and his crazymaking.
And what a life you seem to be living! I envy all the dinner parties you go to and also have! It sounds like you really enjoy yourself! My biggest enjoyment is meeting girlfriends for lunch. It's become one of my most favorite things to do.
It really does sound like your H is still VERY confused and needs to blame others (namely you) for his predicament (sp?). You can validate his complaints, and not agree with them, right?
Anyway, just wanted to say Way To Go! and I hope you have a great time with your New Years plans. Have fun and enjoy yourself, and try not to worry about whether H is going to blame you for all his problems. Right now your in a no-win situation. You might as well do what makes you happiest!
Happy New Year,
JL
Life is not measured in the breaths we take, but in the moments that take our breath away...
