I think that is a part of the unselfish love we have for our spouses is to always want to help them out. Maybe it is all about control though? That is something I have given a lot of thought too and still not came up with an answer.
If we are helping them out, (taking care of them in some way), aren't we then in control of the sitch?
I have read so many times, you seem to have the most friends and they all DO things for fun!!
Mine all work all the time!
I think you are doing a wonderful job of getting on with your life. Doing things with D and friends, working on your project. I have no idea what it is but I think it is AWESOME that you have made the progress that you have on it!!!
Have a great New Year with your friends.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
