I have not posted before on this thread, but I have to say that mojo's last post is probably the most sensible, realistic words on a R that I have ever come across. I agree totally with those words...so many people stay or go back out of fear of the unknown, which in time rarely ever works, and even if it does, someone is going to be consistently unhappy. This is something that many people need to read and absorb. Smart words indeed.