Hope you are getting some rest. I didn't really mean to be talking me down. Just that since I didn't do too much right, I can look back and see that on my own, towards saving my marriage I hesitate to hand out any advice or thoughts.
Quote: My worry is that *if* H ever comes back he will still be exactly the same...
I certainly understand this feeling. In the beginning I would have wanted D back in any shape or form.
At the end I realized the man he had changed into is not really someone I would want to spend the rest of my life with, it would drive me nuts!
But maybe your H will come out of his MLC soon.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
