Where's my sick bag? Ride getting bumpy!

[psluke]

Should I just drop him like a hot brick as so many people advise?

Hi LNL,

As I told Karen earlier today, I'm not exactly the best person to give out advice or opinions as Zoo always told me if she wanted to show someone what NOT to do, she would have sent them to my thread!

But, I think that is a question that only you can answer. From the outside other people can see and say many things. But there are other factors involved that people on the outside can't see. Such as he is D's father, I would assume you still have feelings for him or you wouldn't be working so hard. There are reasons you fell in love with him and reasons you still care for him. Aren't those reasons and feelings still there?

There are bound to be good points to offset the bad that are showing themselves currently. As poor Sage keeps having to remind me, People are gray, not black and white and they don't fit in a catagory of either all good or all bad. Sometimes they have habits that really annoy us but in the big picture are those things the things that will really matter in our lives?

Only you can tell when you are truly ready to move on. I don't know how that feels yet. I think at times I am there but then I find myself still missing D something awful. Not that I have a choice, but I suppose being ready to move on is a process you have to work through to reach!

I hope I just made some sense. When I thought it before posting it sounded like it made sense.