I emailed H to ask what time he would be turning up tomorrow, remember, HE was the one who asked to come stay Thursday instead of Friday, and he just replied back, that he'll be turning up on Friday morning, "if that's OK", as he has been invited by 'friends' for a boozey night out. He doesn't mention who these 'friends' are.
So I shot him an email back, which is quite true - "Great! That suits me so much better!"
My friend wants to drop round to drop off presents, the one who doesn't want to meet H these days. And I am running short of time to shop and get organised for the holidays.
I wonder when he would have brought this up if I hadn't emailed him?
H also said congrats about my work, though it came off sounding a little mealy mouthed, and then he questioned my choice of website...
When he called yesterday about the karate, he started to say something, and then said, no, nothing. I KNEW then he would try backing out of the number of days HE INVITED himself here for, as he no doubt has a better offer from you know who.
You know, I am gettting more than a little tired of the S**t. I am seriously wondering, was wondering even before this email, whether H is really just going to be more of the same, for ever and ever. SOOOOOO self centred.
They say this PA stuff never really gets addressed by the PA man, so how will he ever change? If I change how I react, I may just find he is too much work and any other woman is bl**dy welcome to him!
I feel myself more and more inclined to just move on these days, and to he// with H.
Livnlearn
Sure, I will be all nice and pleasant over Christmas, but I am not bending over backwards for this guy any more.
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
