H rang yesterday to enquire about D's karate exam, said he was thinking of coming, that is, he has been at OW 1's place a week now. Guess they must be good friends!
D got her yellow belt, and was thrilled. She's jumped from ballet to karate!
I sent H a notfication about my stuff on the website, but haven't heard from him yet.
But I will carry on as usual, as you say, getting worked up won't get me anywhere. Concentrating on my life will. I need 2005 to be a turning point in my professional life and on the financial side. Then I can breathe better and get my other ducks in a row.
I know H will bring up money at some point during his stay here. I have no script, but have decided that once H is down to paying the minimum any court would decide, then I have delinked money from H and he can't be on my back about anything any more. No more sword of Damocles hanging over my head. The sword of financial uncertainty I will face head on without emotional strings.
Basically, what H will be left paying for is his D9.
The response in the first twenty fours hours of my work being on the website is very favourable, I just need it to translate into contracts/money at some point!
I have another project to get 'out there' soon as well.
I don't know how much I will be able to post from tomorrow onwards, with H here.
So, everyone, have a really nice Christmas and all the best for a bright new start in 2005!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
