H rang me this morning, to tell me he was coming down to the city right then, he was going to pay some tax etc... Then said, I'll see you tomorrow, I'm taking D out from school for lunch, you can come too if you want... Anyway, I will get in touch again later today or tomorrow morning. I said, OK. It is not clear to me why he called just then, there is nothing he could not have told me this evening or even tomorrow. Did he just want to let me know he was in town but not staying with me, or what?

H is staying the night with OW 1. (An assumption, but I'm willing to stake a lot of money on it!!!)

Today I had a lunch date with my friend R, at 'our' (H's and mine) former haunt. I was thinkng that H may turn up to eat there as well with his 'friend' OW 1 in tow. But I thought, I don't care, they can sit right at the next table if they want, I have NOT done anything wrong, if this town isn't big enough for the two of us, then I ain't the one moving or hiding.

About tomorrow, I am actually very busy with a deadline coming up, it will be the first clear day this week to get on with the work for it, I am thinking of telling H to carry on without me, I really could do with lots of uninterrupted time to work. I hope he doesn't get into rant mode over it.

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"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates