Well, LNL, friends and family can talk big because they feel protective of you - but if you and H truly reconciled, and they saw him doing the right things and you happy, most of them would come around. Geez, look how many families accept the OW???
In my case, my family never even knew what was going on, but H had told everyone it seems that he was leaving, and then had to tell everyone that he was back in love with his wife. He was so happy at being back that he didn't really seem to have a problem with this.
