LNL -
lots of ASSumptions in that last post of yours. So much so that you missed the positive - him accepting your invitation.

As for those slippers - buy dd a pair for Xmas that are even more appealing - then in a couple of months, make sure the ones from OW get "lost" (or just encourage dd to wear them out in the mud ). Or let her keep them at her dad's place. Yuck.

Face it - you are feeling blue because you are ASSuming too many things and letting your EXPECTATIONS get in your way. The key to a great PMA? Building an exciting life of your own that you are excited about, loving detachment from H, getting out and flirting a little bit with OM (amazing what it will do for your PMA to be reminded that other men still find you attractive).

Ellie